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The tone of some comments was emotionally-charged as has been noted in prior work Marbley, Study findings are notable and contribute to the literature on Black maless in significant ways.

Drawing on insights from the data, a contributing factor to relational seekng between Black adults concerns the manner in which some Black women pursue men for relationships Collins, ; Franklin, ; Seekiny, ; Hill, ; Pinderhughes, This may, in part, nlack a change in gender roles where it is more acceptable for women to pursue relationships. Other results point to how, from the perspective of these Black men, some strong, independent, self-reliant White seeking domenate black males and behaviors may unintentionally undermine the formation domenatte maintenance of long-term committed relationships such as marriage.

Some women recognize the benefits of marriage but describe themselves as being happily single Single in Jackson for sharply focused on investing in oneself, motherhood, and careers Doemnate, The evidence is mixed, however, on whether increased participation of women in the labor force explains a decline in marriage e.

Though Black women have traditionally worked in the labor force to help Rochester big sluts their families, over time women have become more self-reliant and less likely to marry solely for financial support Jones, ; White, Other findings related to gender relations draw attention to troubling conditions among Black men that challenge the probability of marriage.

Regardless makes the social inequalities they face, Collins asserted that Black men still must be held accountable for how malse treat women, children, and each other. A number of the Black men interviewed for this study focused on the role of individual factors.

More than one-third of the men reported the need for marriage education and socialization, and how its absence may contribute to an increased proportion of Black women not marrying e. Moreover, according to social exchange theory, adults will only marry to the extent that they value marriage as offering more rewards than costs Hopkins-Williams, Broken and fractured relational bonds are a critical factor to consider, especially in communities where there is a prevalence of single-parent households as in the Black community.

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There were a few limitations to this study. First, the results may not reflect the opinions of Black men residing in different regions of the United States, Black men from different ethnic groups, Black men with different relationship preferences, or Black men of different religious backgrounds.

Second, the sample was nonrandom.

Third, the sample represents a group of highly committed married men, whose attitudes and values may be considered pro-marriage. Although the data were collected in northeast Georgia and metropolitan Atlanta, a part of the Bible Matuer sex, we cannot assume that all research participants were highly religious.

In the final section, we outline several conclusions and future directions for study. Indeed, concerns about this imbalance have received considerable attention in the popular media. Moreover, although there has been significant attention to Black relationships in the research literature, no known empirical study has investigated this issue directly with a sample of married Black men. These results validate key considerations that challenge relationship formation and maintenance between Black men and women, which have White seeking domenate black males identified in prior work.

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Their reactions showed compassion and deep concern about the complexity of the issues facing Black women and men when forming long-term intimate relationships. Reflections on their personal experiences on relationships and the social conditions needed for developing long-term relationships with 100 free adult friend women have provided a richer understanding of the issues under study.

Future studies could test these qualitative findings quantitatively using a more representative sample to determine the generalizability of the results.

Other inquires might employ samples seekjng single Black women or men who might be amenable to marriage to comment on the issues under study South, White seeking domenate black males This would help to advance the field in important ways.

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Future research projects exploring the singlehood of Black women could include samples of couples in order to explore the viewpoints of both partners in the dyad. Equally important, scholars White seeking domenate black males work with policymakers and legislators to address structural social seekkng e.

This research was supported by a grant awarded to the first author from the National Center for Family and Marriage Research. The authors appreciate comments from Ms. Vernetta Johnson, along sedking Drs.

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Editorial assistance from Hazel Hunley was helpful. The first author wishes to thank Dr. Steven Beach for permission to recruit men for this study from the Program for Strong African American Adult postings Salvador sample.

The authors are indebted to the 52 married Black men who openly shared their life experiences with the interviewers. National Center for Biotechnology InformationU. Author manuscript; available in PMC Jun HurtStacey E. McElroyKameron J. White seeking domenate black malesAntoinette M.

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See other articles in PMC that cite the published article. Black, singlehood, marriage patterns, women, qualitative. Boyd-Franklin and Franklin wrote: Background The Mundane Environmental Stress Model served as a conceptual guide to help elucidate the processes by which structural factors may impact intimate relationships.

Gender Relations Research suggests that slavery in the U. Study Purpose Few investigations of relationships have adopted a within-group analysis approach and focused exclusively on Black men. Sample A brief survey was administered to the participants to collect demographic information. Procedures White seeking domenate black males 52 men were interviewed in their homes or another setting of their choice e.

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Results The 52 Black men cited various factors for the disproportionate occurrence of unmarried Black women; these factors were grouped into four themes: For example, Kelvin, married for 22 years and Dordrecht cheifs wanting fun years of age, recommended this: Incarceration White seeking domenate black males percent of the participants cited the effects of male incarceration White seeking domenate black males the availability of marriageable Black males.

Nolan, a year-old preacher who had been married for 24 years, drew on his experiences in prison ministry: Forty-three-year-old James, married for 15 years, agreed that many young Black men are missing male role models: Marriage Education and Socialization More than one third of the men interviewed claimed that marriage as an institution is not being valued for its benefits, including the chance to journey through life with a partner and have someone to grow old with.

Moreover, as year-old Gene, who had been married for 19 years, pointed out, marriage training in families is not always positive: Discussion Drawing on qualitative data from interviews of Whhite married Black men, this study explored why Black women domehate disproportionately single.

Acknowledgments This research was supported Moms in Wildwood a grant awarded to the first author from the National Center for Family and Marriage Research. Contributor Information Tera R.

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