E dward was waiting for me outside the bistro, in spitty rain, looking rather melancholy.
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He greeted me, unsmilingly but warmly, and opened the door for me. He was wearing a beanie, a jacket that was pretty much a high-class anorak, and dark baggy chinos.
He has long but unbony hands and fingers, broad shoulders and a long face made interesting by a well-shaped domed head. His nose is long and straight, his eyes quite deep set.
The whole effect made me think of a carved knight on a medieval tomb, and it turned out that he had Norman invader heritage. We are the same age.
There was no trace of performance, of spqrks, of an angle, of attempts to appear cool or impress. It was rather like beginning to talk to a man sitting opposite you on a long train journey, as if our being at the table together was somehow accidental.
When he bent to pick up his napkin there was a hint of an incoming bald patch in greying brown hair.Beautiful Older Woman Looking Sex Dating Pawtucket Rhode Island
He maintained steady eye contact as he talked to me; his mouth had a deeper lower lip, his teeth were uneven. His chin at the side bore a tiny nick from a hurried pre-date shave. We talked about my work and his, ate steak and drank red wine.
He leaned forward with enthusiasm when he was allowed into his comfort zone and dipped into professorial mode. On the second bottle of red we got the big conversation kf with briefly, the one about heartbreak and separation.
The circumstances of our breakups and our relationships with our exes are broadly similar.
As we paid the bill, I suffered a creeping awareness of having failed to be properly myself, and wished I had. I decided against shaking his hand or kissing his cheek when we parted. Me too, he said.
I waited — would there be an invitation to meet again? There was on-paper compatibility, heaps of it. But no apparent mutual attraction, no spark.
It was possible he might be dating in a more American style, meeting a different woman in the bistro every week, in effect auditioning. That might be a rational approach, after all. But as I strode off down the fi I half turned my head and saw that Edward was still standing there, watching me walk away.Women Seeking Casual Sex Cornish Maine
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